Dear Parent,:Having a child with autism myself, I imagine this road hasn’t always been easy. It’s a road that often can’t be fathomed unless there are fellow travelers.But traveling the same road is not the equivalent to having the same journey. I can’t begin to know what your days, hours, minutes and seconds are like. Autism may be the line that connects our dots, but our challenges and how we persevere changes the dynamic a bit and causes our stories to differ.I can speak about my child and the successes, the falls, the fears, the dedication, the bottomless pits and the brighter days. I have four sons overall. It can be challenging to care for all four, especially when the needs of one of them are more.
But what I can tell you is parents with children with autism need support. We need encouragement. We need to feel like we’re not failing even though signs of improvement are nowhere in sight. We need someone to listen and not feel like they have all the answers. We need someone to care and someone who “gets it.” No explanation needed. No judgment. Just someone who understands.